You are the only one who can make the necessary changes to your life. So live! Life is for living! Let’s grow and change together for the pure enjoyment of life which is FOR us. Life is FOR us. Life is FOR me. My life is mine. Life is FOR you. Your life is YOURS.
You live and learn and learn do better next time because there is always a next time. You are free to live and love and give / be joyful and create your life.